By all means, an older lover can play multiple roles in a relationship: he can be a lover, a senior friend, and give some parental support. It is a well-known fact that boys need more time to grow up than girls.
Does that mean you have to be on the wrong side of the tracks and start stealing cars? But it mean you have to be UNPREDICTABLE in your communication, in your behaviours and in your level of ‘interest’ in her. Do the same in your interactions with her, and she’ll stay interested – even if it’s just for the challenge. Confidence is the NUMBER ONE trait that attracts women. This doesn’t mean that he’s selfish, callous or obnoxious – it just means he doesn’t require anything or anyone to validate him. When you are needy, you are saying, It reeks of low self-confidence. Not to mention that it LOVERS your social value and puts her in a position of power (nothing is less attractive than a man who is overpowered by a woman).So no matter how bad you want this woman, remember that wanting and needing are very different.If things don’t work out with her, another woman will come along.Of course however like all fantasies, the reality is often very different from what you imagined, and while there are some very obvious strong points for dating younger women, there are also some downsides and difficulties.Knowing some of these ahead of time can help you to avoid getting into trouble in your relationship and help you to get the most from the circumstances. Try not to be too possessive: Your girlfriend is likely to get a lot more looks and glances than she would if she was your age and in this sense you are at a definite disadvantage.